

American Coming of Age Ceremony: Sweet Sixteen
When it comes to America, we as well have a celebration for becoming 16, but with a few different stipulations than the Amish. One being that this is an event for only being 16 years old and that's it. Also most of the time, depending on the families, they do not engage in the drinking or drugs that most of the Amish take place in. A boy or girls sweet sixteen is usually just a celebration or birthday party. Depending on the families once again, these parties can either be over the top and extravagant, or treated as just another plain birthday. The main problem with today's sweet sixteens are they are over commercialized. These types of "parties were recently highlighted on a popular American television show titled "My Super Sweet Sixteen", where reality television crews profiled some of the country's most lavish and insane sweet sixteen parties" (Derek A., 2014). Unfortunately, this has led large commercialization of this idea and almost poses the question if it is more for the ceremony or idea. Unlike most coming of age ceremonies, a sweet sixteen does not have the religious tie that one might see with the commitment to the church like in the Amish culture. The sweet sixteen is seen as a closer to step of freedom for the young teenager more than anything else. One symbol that gives us this idea of freedom for the teen is the gift of a car. Once you turn 16 you can finally get your drivers license and you are allowed to drive on your own for the first time. So by receiving a car it is a symbol of the freedom you now have to go off on your own and closer to being able to experience life on your own.

With both of these coming of age ceremonies, we can see many similarities and differences in many other cultures. Both of these ceremonies start the young teen out at the age of 16, although the Amish culture goes up to 25. They both give the teens the ability to go out and experience more of the world for themselves, and give them the freedom. A major difference that we see of course is the lack of religious value asserted into the Sweet Sixteen compared to the Rumspringa. All in all, these ceremonies both allow these cultures the ability to grow up and come of age in their society.
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